Lord, when that thought came into my brain years ago about becoming famous—at 54—this wasn’t exactly what I had in mind. While there isn’t anything necessarily famous about my sit-chee-a-shun … I’ll make it so by virtue of how I handle it. And you’ll be there with me, every step of the way. I really, really believe that.
I’ve been diagnosed with diffuse large cell lymphoma, and that’s the last time I’ll use that word here. I won’t mention the “C” word. Wallowing, moaning & groaning will get me no-where. NOwhere. It’s 2010; advances in medicine are vast. Cures are common and in most cases, expected. I’ve had a week full of tests, and I stand to have a week or so more before that other “C” word—chemotherapy—becomes a regular part of my world.
I prefer to put my brain power and energy into the positive. Life continues. I’m gonna grow a set of cohones the likes of which many have never seen … not a pretty picture, but picture it, anywho. Give yourself a good giggle.
Here’s what I’ve learned. Take serious notes. YOU may need this advice.
1. All who keeping saying you need to stop and smell the roses—fercryinoutloud, stop talking. Do it.
2. If you’ve wanted to do something for a long time but say you don’t have time … trust me, you have time. If you continue with that useless litany, shame on you. It wasn’t that important after all.
3. Everything has a shelf life. Deal with it.
4. The idea that we should tell those we love how we feel ain’t just words. Go for it, every chance you get.
5. Laugh, laugh, laugh. Laugh you’re a** off, at everything. How can this be a bad idea?
6. Have faith. Believe. You are what you think. My God told me that, and God’s right. Always.
7. Life changes in an instant—in small ways or humongous ways. Be prepared and be flexible.
8. Learn from everything. Everything.
9. Prepare to be famous. For something. It’s coming your way.
10. Take your bra off as soon as you get in the house … an important “feel-good” moment.
I will not entertain negativity. I’ve no misconceptions of a walk in the park … but I’ll act as if I’m not only walking in the park, but stopping to smell those loverly flowers along the way. I’m enjoying the sunshine, and the Sonshine, and thankful for every blessed God-given moment. I am what I believe.
YOU are what you believe. Let’s be famous together … and tell the world about it. Find the highest mountain, have faith, start laughing—and make sure you always take your bra off ASAP for comfort.
